The Hunted, Why Not Make Happy?

When our desires are fulfilled, we will be happy, and developing new and greater desire (elongation). Conversely, if the desire is not fulfilled, we become sad (hard), and we can shrink.

In this life may not desire a person continually met. Sometimes fulfilled, sometimes not. That's why there are no circumstances or conditions difficult happy lasting. Always happy and hard turns.

As one example is the Nova-life experience (not her real name). He is a single woman aged around 35 years. When other people are experiencing much difficulty to find a job in the early days, Nova actually been able to work at a company when it was still sitting on a bench in a city college student.

Armed with a degree in accounting economics from leading universities, as well as high skills in the field, after graduating he could easily get a new job in Jakarta.

During the nine years of Nova pursue a job with a company. However, in a nine-year working period that he was not happy with his work. First, he was not satisfied with the salary received. After difficult negotiations with the leaders, finally raised his salary anyway.

After that he still felt the dissatisfaction of others, that feeling can not be developed due to a work environment that is not challenging. It is difficult acceptance is a "social life" company leader who easily accept anyone who needs a job.

As a result, many employees are less skilled so that jobs can not run efficiently, while the leaders are not doing employee assistance programs.

In such circumstances Nova finally chose to move to another company. However, the situation turned out this new company is also less in accordance with the wishes of the Nova, then again, he moved to another company. Over a year he worked at this company, the company was eventually shuttered. As a result, this has been three months unemployed Nova.

Can imagine what it feels like a long time unemployed. Desire to return get a job is very strong. This makes the Nova experience feelings of panic, especially in the moments following the selection of incoming jobs. Increasingly strong desire to get a job, he became frantic, the more afraid of not being accepted.

This situation is finally making Nova yearn to return to work at a company that had been disliked and abandoned. Social nature of leadership (easy to accept people who need a job) who used to not like, now it coveted.

Well, look at all how happy (bungah) and sad (hard) is the fruit of "game" the desire (karep) exist within oneself. Happiness in early youth as having a job has been growing rapidly (stretchy) into the desire for a more ideal job.

Once the desire is not fulfilled, the desire is then shrunk (mungkret): Nova back long wanted the job. It appears that Nova actually become unhappy because he thinks more work to pursue an ideal. In the end, anyway he wants his job back that had previously been rejected.

Important: Finding For
Suryomentaram, a leading Java Psychology, found that happiness is really just due to sheer, as well as sorrow. It's more important is finding difficult because of taste and sense of happiness.

People need to find that selfishness is the cause of feeling wretched (unhappy), and only by discovering the inner instincts that way we can grow the reasons for the birth of a sense of happiness. For that teaches about Pengawikan Suryomentaram Personals, namely knowledge and taste aversion pleasure themselves.

In terms of physical exercises to find these personal pengawikan Ki Ageng Suryomentaram disclose:

"Above the earth and under heaven there is no inappropriate items sought, avoided, or rejected by death. Nevertheless, man is of course trying desperately to look for, avoid or reject something, although it should not be sought, rejected, or avoided. Is not what you are looking for or rejection of it does not cause people to be happy and happy forever, or woe and hard forever. "

When people understand that all events that no one worried and some are not very interesting, his view of light, and he Be free of attachment to the goods.

Things on earth and under the sky that does not cause people happy or wretched. Nor does it cause people happy or difficult. Because in essence, that cause is pleased that his desire is achieved, and that causes difficulty is the desire that is not achieved. So, not the goods he wanted.

What was experienced by Nova on top is a fairly clear example, that in fact the work itself (worldly goods) is not something that brings pleasure. The more he pursues his desire to work that thought bring pleasure, it turns out he's getting susahlah.

Please note that the human desire in general to move in search of degrees, hook, and Kramat. Finding peg means seeking wealth, comfort, and pleasure. Finding drajat means finding grandeur, glory, pride, superiority. Finding Kramat means finding the power, confidence, so revered and praised.

Desire is something that the man, who always existed throughout human life. Man desires. Man is eternal (everlasting), while happy, while hard.
When eternity is understood, we will be free from the pains of hell regrets and fears, the pains of hell out of envy and pride and a sense of woe. Emerged which is called the "man tatag", the man who dared to (not worry) to face any circumstances. Get him in heaven serene and steadfast that causes people glad and happy dreams.

Another thing that is also associated with pengawikan taught personally, so can be expected tatag people act in accordance with the principle of "six-sa": sabutuhe (as needed), saperlune (as necessary), sacukupe (to taste), sakepenake (live comfortably), samestine (as appropriate), sabenere (correctly).

Supervise Desire
After glad-ideals and happy, it can be when people realize his own desire whatever arise. Every desire must contain a sense of fear that is not achieved.

To that must be believed that "The desire that if achieved not cause happiness, but happy for a moment, then hard again. If not achieved does not cause any harm, just a difficult moment, which will be happy again. "

If we have declared so, then we can challenge, "Please wish desperately looking for eternal pleasure, and desperately hard to deny the eternal, must not succeed. You (will) do not worry about it anymore.

If we can believe in myself a desire like that, gone are feeling concerned. Coincided with the disappearance of a sense of concern, the watchdog grows keinginanya himself who understands his own will. @ (To be continued)