Sexual arousal Occur When in Hotel

It's been three years he lost his sexual desire, so often felt sick when exposed because her husband was forced to serve. However, why the sudden passion when staying at the hotel? What he imagined?

"I am a 42-year-old wife, the husband of 47 years. We were married 15 years ago, has two children. At first our sex okay.

I love doing because it can feel quite passionate and delicious.
However, since three years I have experienced drastic changes. Like a lost passion. If it did not have sex while also not a problem. This condition is a problem for her husband. Finally I just had to serve, sometimes painful. Since then I never feel good again.

Not long ago my husband and I traveled out of town and staying at a hotel. To her surprise, really, my passion rise up and want to have sex. During the two day stay I can feel good again like old times. Curiously, after returning to the house why would I not excited anymore?

I want to ask what does this mean? Why am I excited when staying in hotels, but not at home? I feel very different. Please note, my house is pretty good, above average when compared to other houses.

How do I overcome this? Is there a disease or disorder that has caused me to be like this? "

S.Y., Jakarta

Due to Saturated
Your problem also faced by many other people, not only women but also men. The decrease or loss of sexual desire experienced by enough people for a variety of causes, both physical and psychological causes.

Physical causes such as liver dysfunction, lack of functioning of the hormone testosterone, and severe anemia. Among other causes of mental saturation, boredom, and stress. All these causes can depress sex drive and even to vanish altogether.

If you lose your sex drive since three years ago, then reappear when you stay overnight at the hotel, there may be suspected as the cause of physical factor.

Psychological factors may be boredom or boredom with the daily atmosphere at home that you might feel monotonous. Especially if your daily activities just to stay home.

This saturation does not depend on how your home state. That is, although the state of your house is better than another house, it does not guarantee the emergence of no saturation or boredom. This psychological factor is not absolutely determined by the physical state of the house, but concerned about feelings.

The changes you feel when you stay overnight at the hotel should not only happen once. This means every new situation that you feel different from the monotony at home, you also feel the difference.

Change Routines
Try to do the changes in the atmosphere of everyday life and activities pertaining to you. Changes could include many aspects such as the activities you do, work, social life, home atmosphere, the atmosphere bedrooms, and communication with their husbands.

Communication with the husband really needs to be noted among other concerns regarding your declaration of love, and happiness with your statement. Change is also about variations in sexual activity, such as sexual arousal, and sexual positions.

Also do not forget the possibility of changes in sexual function husband. If it turns out there is a decrease or interruption in sexual function husband how you feel, this can also be the cause of your problem.

If this is how you feel, do not hesitate to tell her husband through good communication. By increasing the return of sexual function husband, your sexual drives are expected to recover.

Although psychological factors appeared stronger as the cause of your problem, do not forget the possibility of a physical cause, among others, as mentioned above. To ensure proper examination is needed of course.